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Wounded Male Ego: Some Men Feel Small and Get Scary

Pretty lady, you know the moment. You may not have had language for it when it happened, but your body …

He Says He’s Not Ready for a Relationship. Believe Him.

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Clear-Coding vs. Trauma-Dumping: The Line Between Honest and Overwhelming on a First Date

Clear-Coding vs. Trauma-Dumping: The Line Between Honest and Overwhelming on a First Date

By: A Pretty Lady Who Thinks Too Much About Feelings Two women went on first dates last Saturday night. Both …
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A Boundary Keeps You Safe. A Wall Keeps You Alone. Most People Are Building Walls.

By: A Pretty Lady Who Thinks Too Much About Feelings She was thirty-four and she hadn’t cried in front of …
"Ghostlighting" Is the New Gaslighting — And You've Probably Been on the Receiving End

“Ghostlighting” Is the New Gaslighting — And You’ve Probably Been on the Receiving End

By: A Pretty Lady Who Thinks Too Much About Feelings Week one. He stopped texting back mid-conversation. No warning. No …
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I’m Just Protecting My Peace” Has Become the Most Overused Line in Modern Dating

By: A Pretty Lady Who Thinks Too Much About Feelings The text arrived at 9:47 on a Tuesday morning. My …
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